It’s not uncommon for parents to have to deal with their children not wanting to leave them, and sometimes even once they begin attending preschool, they can still have difficulty adjusting.
So, what can you do to help your child ease into preschool?
- Let your child know that tomorrow is a school day. Say it to them with a lot of excitement, so they will feel excited as well. Talk to them about what they can expect, and be sure to mention the fun things like story time and playtime.
- Help them prepare their things the night before. Encourage your kids to prepare their school supplies, and even snacks, the night before. Make it sound exciting and tell them how much fun they’re going to have using their new school supplies.
- Wake them up early. This will prevent delays and arriving to school late. Waking them up early will help eliminate their grogginess before they begin their school day. It will also keep them from feeling embarrassed if they show up late.
- Prepare their favorite breakfast for them. Start their day right with their favorite meal. It will make them happy, which sets a good tone for the day.
- Help them to their classroom. If they do not want you to leave, stay for a few minutes while they sit down at their chair. Then, leave quietly once the teacher starts.
- Be early to pick them up and ask them about school. Show them that you are interested in their school, so they feel your support. This will also prevent them from becoming scared if you are not there to pick them up on time.
- Observe how they feel. Ask them how they feel about school and gather hints of possible reasons they may not be adjusting well.
- Have a consistent routine. Make pre-school preparation a routine for them so they become comfortable with it. Always have the same schedule each day from the time they wake up until you pick them up.
- Partner with their teacher. Talk to your teacher and ask them how they can help your child adjust to school. Let them know how your child feels and discuss what may be causing their reluctance about school.
